• Szyler@lemmy.worldOP
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    10 hours ago

    Always being told you are wrong growing up puts pressure on masking to always try to be right and gives an all-or-nothing thinking.

    It is OK to not be perfect. It is something I have recently accepted about myself, and hope others can as well. 🩷

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      8 hours ago

      This is something I’ve discovered about myself lately and I’m now trying to tackle, and hopefully start to dismantle.

      I did a fuck up the other day and may have unintentionally offended someone (a combination of mental and sensory overload led to a louder than expected verbal outburst of frustration)

      I’ve put out an apology and have asked for an accommodation to help with the sensory aspect, but I’m still churning inside and over thinking because of my shitty social and communication ‘skills’

      Thanks for your comment, it sums things up ‘perfectly’ 🤣

  • Sternburgexport@feddit.org
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    10 hours ago

    Being bad at something or not knowing something that you like is actually pretty nice because there is so much stuff you can still learn about it.

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      20 minutes ago

      Except when you want to learn it but there isn’t enough time to. Then it is nice and frustrating at the same time.

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    9 hours ago

    I prefer doing it right on the first try before I forget how to fix my projects when they are falling apart.

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    8 hours ago

    I’m going to have to say it: why would you super glue parts of a model? It’s a lot harder to use than poly cement?