I’m traveling with family this weekend in a touristy place and have been out in public in crowded areas. I am really shocked by the number of people who have loud, personal conversations on the phone in speaker mode. This ranges from walking down the sidewalk, to in line for washrooms, to seated restaurant dining.
I’ve heard people say that it’s because the phone speaker breaks (for their ear) but I’ve never had that happen in all the years I’ve destroyed phones and never had a friend or colleague say that happened. Other people say it’s because the glass is cracked and they worry about cutting their face, etc.
My personal bias is this is inconsiderate but then I ask myself how is it different from talking to a person next to them, say. I’m willing to be change my mind here.
People who do this, please explain what’s going on so I can sleep at night. :)
My boss mentioned that she thinks it’s from those reality TV shows like the Kardashian ones where all calls are on speaker since it’s part of the “entertainment.”
It’s why people are holding the phone up to their face like a sandwich and speaking into the bottom. It mimics the TV shows.
Oh my god!! That’s the most plausible hypothesis I’ve heard on that weird phenomenon!!
People do the weirdest and most uncomfortable pose just because they don’t understand they do it on TV so the Boom mic can pick up the convo….
I like this as a possible explanation. In my experience however, it’s been older people who do this. The generation that most likely wouldn’t be watching these shows
Really? I’ve only ever seen younger people do this.
52 here and I do this. It’s comfortable and people can hear me well. I don’t do it in public, except for walking around my yard and talking to a customer or vendor. Even then I feel a little odd.
What is a “television show”?
Yeah, I do it not in public too. The topic is specifically about in public though and that’s what I was addressing.
even without speaker phone, im always shouting out my conversations out loud. it’s a good way to build mojo. Anytime people stare too long, i just glare and scream “waddya looking at !!!”. Mojo is very important, and helps me get the best business deals.
How else are people gonna know you’re an important successful business person! /s
I just slide over my subtly off white, tastefully thick, watermarked business card.
Eggshell? With Romalian type? My god…
They hold it up because they’re holding a microphone and speaking into it. It doesn’t have anything to do with reality TV.
You’re misunderstanding their comment. The person is referring to people that hold the phone up to their mouth to speak into, but not up to their ear to listen because they’re using speakerphone. This is a dumb way to use the phone because you don’t need to hold the phone up to your face if you’re using speakerphone
Yes that’s what I’m talking about. They’re holding the phone up in front of them like a microphone and speaking at it.
When the other user said “they should hold on the side of their face like they’re supposed to” you said the same thing. What he said is different from what I said, so which orientation are you actually talking about?
What is so difficult to understand?
This is the comment I replied to. They are speaking into the microphone.
You responded to this comment: https://lemmy.world/comment/4351598
They described a completely different phone orientation and you claimed that’s what you were describing.
Also, the comment you are currently referring to is describing the person holding the phone horizontal and speaking into the mic while also using speakerphone which means there’s literally no need to hold the phone up to your face
Oook dude.
It’s the same fucking thing lol
Do you need me to list every possible way a person could hold a phone while on speaker? What will satisfy this obsession you have?
Either you’re a troll or an idiot. If it’s the latter, go back and reread the thread
Or they could just hold the phone up to the side of their face as intended.
It’s a behavior I started to see in people recording voice messages. Some UIs lagged behind and didn’t turn off the screen at that time + these persons may want to reference whatever happened in their chat. Why they record audio is another question.
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Well yeah, that’s what this conversation is talking about lol
I doubt that’d be the reason (for iphones at least) because when you turn on speakerphone, the sounds comes out the bottom and the voice goes in the FaceTime mic at the top of the screen (beside the earpiece).
So if they want to be heard as clearly as they can, they should hold the display facing them (like you’re in a video call but no image)
Right. That’s what I’m saying. They are holding it up and talking at the microphone.