Same but I’ve generally kinda been able to be the guy people like because of that. I’ve got bender from Futurama appeal, I’m a good joke maker so I’ve found ways to turn my scathing critiques into a more digestible format and otherwise I make up for it by genuinely caring about others way more than most expect action wise I have shown to go real hard for even the randomest acquaintance. So I get loveable curmudgeon thing. I’m grumpy as hell but no one can deny at any time I haven’t taken action to help them or been there when needed. I’m just also kind of a jerk ehos funny and witty enough to get away with way more than I should. Just do good things and stand by your principles and you’ll find yourself very well liked. I’ve been openly described by co workers as ridiculously charming and it is really weird that anyone thinks that way about me, I’ve got a major mean streak but have found it’s also a nice streak, it’s a 2 way streak and your powe level grows hard when you open both lanes up evenly. You gotta get people the goods and be fun and also your fury must strike like the hoary hammer of Thor to be the best communist you can be and once I focused my social efforts on being the best communist I can be, I got way better st socializing.