I see those stereotypes as convenient propaganda to easily turn the situation into an “us-vs-them” issue and radicalise people with less skin in the game. Whether transphobes actually believe in them is kinda beside the point. The real drive for transphobia imo is purely ideological where gender roles are governed by nature, families are nuclear, and patriarchy is normal and good (but dont call it that)!

The most effective way to combat this is to show examples of trans folks existing in society as healthy, productive people. Having families, not conforming to the stereotypes or giving ammunition to the zealots. I’m not saying everyone should be conforming! Just that we need to have counterexamples to show those who hold trans people up as the epitome of western decline.