yeah, was going to ask the same thing - I think infertility is a great example of an “unexpected” thing that I wouldn’t think should count as a violation, at least not for hooking up. It’s another matter if a person really wants to reproduce and the partner lies or doesn’t disclose they are infertile and leads them along somehow, but that’s not a hookup situation. A hookup is not a suitable context for reproducing, let’s be honest.
would you feel “violated” if the woman you date looks totally normal, but is actually infertile?
yeah, was going to ask the same thing - I think infertility is a great example of an “unexpected” thing that I wouldn’t think should count as a violation, at least not for hooking up. It’s another matter if a person really wants to reproduce and the partner lies or doesn’t disclose they are infertile and leads them along somehow, but that’s not a hookup situation. A hookup is not a suitable context for reproducing, let’s be honest.