• 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.worldOP
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    2 days ago

    If women here were voluntarily celibate, then they wouldn’t use dating apps, it’s involuntary, which mean they are trying but failing at it.

    however, given how almost every post ends up having catgirl orgies, i doubt the femcell name applies.

    here, I’ll prove it to you:

    meaw :3

    (wait a few minutes)

    • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      it would be interesting to know how many femcels are on dating apps, but I suspect most of them don’t leave their bedroom (let alone go on dates, with actual humans, in the flesh)

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        You can be on dating apps and not get dates. Either because you’re uggy, your standards are too high, or just the fact that dating apps are intentionally bad.

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          1 day ago

          yes, though willingness to leave your room to go on a date seems like an obvious precondition to getting on a dating app, I still think it’s unlikely most femcels are on dating apps 😄

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          before the 2020s the online femcel communities I interacted with were glorifying young women who killed men with knives, they had a whole aesthetic based on the look of various young women murders - it’s not all gay cats and rainbows 😅

          see: /r/femcelgrippysockjail

          example of one of the most popular posts there:

          here’s another:

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            17 hours ago

            Yeah, I really liked this one, so I tried looking up some of the femcel communities on reddit. That one made me a bit uncomfortable tbh. I don’t belong there (man, not particularly fem), so that makes sense, but I also really hope that I never have to meet anyone with that kind of mindset.

          • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.worldOP
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            2 days ago

            ok. damn.

            this one has such cozy vibes I’m really scared they’ll make a rule like womenstuff. i asked them to ban me, don’t want to accidentally comment on their stuff and invade their space. that’s rude.

            I’m cis, but I’ll take tittacs to stay here

            • ThotDragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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              This isn’t about gender. It’s about femininity and being degenerate in silly ways. A way to blow off steam and find value in ourselves even when we aren’t able to live up to other’s standards.

              If what gets posted here is your jam, then you might be a femcel of some variety. And you’re welcome.

                  • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.worldOP
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                    although it would be funny if this group transes me so I can get the gif from Freaks (1932) "one of us, one of us" (one of the best movies ever made, if you haven't seen it watch it asap, it's in the public domain, then look at the promotional materials and reviews and get angry.)