• ABCDE@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    I assume because marriage requires a lot of documentation and an official process, whereas my name change only required my friends to sign a document I made.

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      10 months ago

      Marriage requires a license and an officiant. Name change often requires a hearing and publication in a newspaper. So, no, you’re wrong.

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            10 months ago

            Did I say it was? I said “I assume”, and “my name change”, not hard to read one sentence.

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              10 months ago

              Your name change, which took place in an entirely different country than where this all occurred… and you assume it was the same process, then you get mouthy with the guy who corrected you…

              You sure you’re from the UK? You sound more like an American twat.

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                10 months ago

                Yes, mine, which I was very clear about. I said “I assume”, which seemed like a nice and fair enough caveat. The guy who “corrected” my experience? Yeah okay. Said “No, you’re wrong” to my own experience is just being a knob.

                I really don’t care what you think.

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          10 months ago

          In most US states you need to have a decree of name change notarized by the county clerk, or issued by a family court if. Not that hard to do, but a lot more formal and government-involved than the UK process.

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            10 months ago

            You missed the part were I said “my name change”. I have no idea about Ohio, and you didn’t seek to give clarification, you just responded like a prick.