richardisaguy@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 11 months agowhat is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?message-squaremessage-square49fedilinkarrow-up179arrow-down12
arrow-up177arrow-down1message-squarewhat is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?richardisaguy@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 11 months agomessage-square49fedilink
minus-squarerawn@feddit.delinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-211 months agoMaybe the problem is you and not the other people or the place or the employer. Get therapy When your kid is bored with its input, it’s okay to take it serious and see that it gets more/better input. “Tough it out” is not good advice, no matter in what form it comes. Children’s tears are not an act. Not if it’s a girl either. Check your bias. Just because it didn’t kill you, does not mean you have to do it to your kid. Dear mom, run! Divorce! I’d still like to be alive and stuff, but you don’t deserve this and neither do we.
Maybe the problem is you and not the other people or the place or the employer. Get therapy
When your kid is bored with its input, it’s okay to take it serious and see that it gets more/better input.
“Tough it out” is not good advice, no matter in what form it comes.
Children’s tears are not an act. Not if it’s a girl either. Check your bias.
Just because it didn’t kill you, does not mean you have to do it to your kid.
Dear mom, run! Divorce! I’d still like to be alive and stuff, but you don’t deserve this and neither do we.