• ferret@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    OP means “don’t assume someone is non-binary because they are an effeminate man” and not “you aren’t non-binary just because you are an effeminate man”

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      5 months ago

      I suppose that’s possible, but the thing you say OP is not saying is literally a quote. So at best it’s worded poorly.

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        5 months ago

        Their intent with the message was clearly less-than-literal. They tried to clear things up in replies but failed. I think it is quite clear that they meant no one any harm, and simply failed to convey their idea properly.

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          5 months ago

          The comment itself should be edited to reflect the original intent, then. People can’t just say stupid and hyperbolic things and not be held socially accountable.