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  • DarkNightoftheSoul@mander.xyz
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    4 months ago

    This week I attempted to make new friends. It did not go well. How the fuck do you ask for a person’s number without coming off like you’re coming on to them?! I’m not gay! I JUST WANT TO HANG OUT FFS. (coming off like coming on… english is weird)

    Incidentally, whatever happened to the phoenix? At least in my area, it has totally fallen off. There’s very few activities and they are literally far between, both geographically and temporally. I remember almost every day having multiple stuff(s?) like rock climbing, basketball, fencing at one point… I never went, mind you, but I could’ve, and now I want to.

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      4 months ago

      Making friends as an adult is hard! I’m sorry to hear you had an awkward moment. I think it’s much easier for me as a woman to ask for another woman’s number because that’s not seen as weird - although more often we just exchange Instas and communicate that way at first. Do guys do that with Discord? Sorry if that’s a dumb question.

      It’s a bummer you can’t find activities, especially when you are in the mood for them. I hope you manage to find some entertainment/fun!