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  • cowboycrustation [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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    7 months ago

    Wtf. That’s horrendous that he treated you that way. You should send a complaint to his manager because that is not acceptable behavior for a bar that claims to be queer friendly.

    • Krrygon@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 months ago

      Thanks cowboycrustation. Yeah despite living in a mostly conservative pocket of Washington, that was the worst experience I have had so far, so I do at least consider myself lucky. I expect there will be more stuff like that in the future as I am more openly trans, but I think I can tolerate that in the pursuit of being true to myself.

      If he was a member of staff at the bar, I absolutely would complain, but he was just a temporary guest who works for a different company, and I don’t think he’ll return. Everybody who works there has always been nice to me