all those “oh I would have supported you if it weren’t for X” are all gaslighting and manipulation, no they wouldn’t. They just have an excuse now. Being “one of the good ones” doesn’t work. The people who hate us and opress us are the ones that have to change, not us
![[cw: transphobia] i would have been an ally had it not been for those evil hexbears :ooooooooooooooh:](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/48d3b161-61a9-4413-b720-8af8662fd7de.png){kind=link}
never ever ever concede on any of this…
all those “oh I would have supported you if it weren’t for X” are all gaslighting and manipulation, no they wouldn’t. They just have an excuse now. Being “one of the good ones” doesn’t work. The people who hate us and opress us are the ones that have to change, not us
Queer people who fall for this shit and engage in respectability politics and/or assimilationism make me so sad.
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