• jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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      4 months ago

      More precisely, how has the relationship come this far without him knowing she hates all bugs?

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        I don’t think it’s on him for not knowing that when she agreed to marry an Entomologist. It’s nobody’s job to read their partner’s mind, they need to communicate likes and dislikes during the courting phase and I’m sure there were plenty of opportunities to bring that topic up.

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          I’m not blaming him at all. Him being an Entomologist makes this all worse. She didn’t even question where the name came from.