• HornyOnMain [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    Idk, I think that that’s over the line to be DMing someone like that, especially given the historical link between mocking people for small penises and anti asian racism (the randint guy is Taiwanese iirc)

    • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netOP
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      1 year ago

      There was a modpost around that recently, and to you’re right in general for reasons of body shaming. But there’s no reason anyone should know this guy’s ethnicity, and he’s a reactionary with an axe to grind

      Let’s not pretend he’s acting in good faith here

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      1 year ago

      we did clarify in a featured post that “post hog” is ok but “show me your tiny penis” is not and FWIW we did remove the comments stating the latter

    • Egon [they/them]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      I would never DM that to someone, those were replies. You are right that bodyshaming is wrong, and I do regret that. That comment got removed very quickly by mods as well, and brought up as an example in a follow-up post about site conduct, in which I also showed up, admitted to having been the one to have done that and apologised and regretted my heated gamer moment.