Alch_Fox [she/her, comrade/them]

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Cake day: September 19th, 2020

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  • This thread is making me like a fossil. Geez.

    I figured myself out at 32. Everything has gone well to this point and I’ve been on HRT for over a year now. My family was a little iffy with me being trans at first for various, nonsensical reasons. However, their opinions don’t matter at the end of the day. I knew I was trans. I knew I wasn’t comfortable further living my life as a man, regardless of what other people thought. So here I am, happier than I’ve ever been in my life and just a few weeks from bottom surgery consultation. Just doing my best to live my best life.

    What I’m more or less trying to say here is that you should do your best to shut out those in your life that have little or no interest in truly accepting you. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters in this regard are your own opinions and your own thoughts regarding the matter. Or at least that’s how I see things and that’s how I live life.







  • Not gonna lie, hexbear is probably the most trans friendly place on the internet that I’ve found and taken part in. I’ve had some tough episodes of dysphoria lessened in severity partly in thanks to the community. They’re frankly quite wonderful. Or at least to me I suppose.

    That being said, I was kinda excited to see that we were federating with this instance. Finding and being part of other trans inclusive spaces is quite nice, especially since I don’t do a lot of internet crawling for the good of my psyche. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to be around as of late due to my taking care of my girlfriend after a recent surgery. So I missed the time of having been federated.

    It’s a shame that it’s coming to this, but what can I do at the end of the day? Perhaps I’ll make an account here. Maybe. Hopefully we can coexist in some fashion.