There were two women there already, apparently paying 20 bucks a month to do pushups and lunges.

Lmao you deserve it for talking shit about their workout

I just say I’m bi lol

Yeah. I just don’t know when to pull the trigger and I don’t want to be too late either. But I also don’t wanna leave home. Idk. I don’t want to lose my healthcare or worse, be put in some camp or men’s prison or something

Yeah so I am already in a blue state that has good trans protections. I’m just honestly wondering how far they’ll take it with the federal government. I just so happen to a work for an international company and could just do an internal transfer

Soooo how fucked are we? I am legitimately worried about losing my healthcare. Should I be looking to leave the country?

Idk it’s a difficult thing to accept. I’m just holding out hope I’ll get there. I think also managing expectations is good. Like I don’t expect to pass as cis, my own goal is to just pass as a woman and be treated as a woman and not constantly misgendered. I think it’s an ok goal and the bar is way lower for that

Ah I gotcha ok

If you’re in the US I did find that the dresses on stitch fix have been fitting me really well. I mean.its different for everyone but friends also report the same thing. I have recs

Lmao what

I don’t think I ever even come off as queer masc to people. Like I’m not super masc and if I literally changed how my voice sounded, no one would question how I talk I don’t think, but with my voice it’s just like … idk I can be in a dress and full makeup and I get he him’d. I figure it has to be my voice at this point

I actually scheduled a consult with a voice coach. It’s been like, idk a year now and I have made no progress with my voice so hoping that a voice coach can help me. Only problem is that I’m not out at work so I will not be able to go full time with my voice :(