I think for some of us this is just the case and for different reasons. Some people will see others standoffish because they think are attractive and will assume them to be dismissive.
I think if you can acknowledge it as your “social role” to some degree, and just try to do your best with it. Try initiating until you become desensitized to it. Ain’t going to lie, it’s gonna suck for a long time and you have keep an effort up, but it is learnable.
I think for some of us this is just the case and for different reasons. Some people will see others standoffish because they think are attractive and will assume them to be dismissive.
I think if you can acknowledge it as your “social role” to some degree, and just try to do your best with it. Try initiating until you become desensitized to it. Ain’t going to lie, it’s gonna suck for a long time and you have keep an effort up, but it is learnable.