cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/37235684

Obviously reporting transphobic comments to a transphobic mod isn’t going to result in any action, so I’m wondering if the admins are going to do anything about it?

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  • ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
    2214·
    2 days ago

    There are specific biological differences that a mtf woman will have that hormones won’t change.

    This is transphobia since it is factually incorrect and stems from wilful ignorance, and I’m shutting it, and your tone policing, down. There, how’s that?

    • its_prolly_fine@sh.itjust.works
      2·
      11 hours ago

      I ment the tone of the original post complaining about the trans woman playing on the women’s team. I appreciate that article and agree with it. But I don’t really feel bad about doing it to people who are expressing anger because trans people exist.

      I would be interested in any articles you have about the biological changes I was talking about. I would love to read anything you have. I’m going off of general classes I took in college. Like developmental, human, and cell biology. Nothing was specific on transitioning, just the general sexual dimorphism in humans.

    • punchmesan@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      92·
      1 day ago

      What makes you think it’s willful ignorance over garden-variety ignorance? Being incorrect and thinking you are correct is different from purposefully keeping yourself ignorant.

      I have no horse in this race, and willfully being ignorant and spreading disinformation about trans topics willfully is indeed transphobic and warrants aggressive shutdowns, like the comment I’m replying to. But unless I’m missing something I don’t see the evidence of bad intent here? It just seemed like a bit of a leap.

      • ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
        41·
        16 hours ago

        I honestly don’t know how to simplify it further: impact > intent. Always. This understanding is a fundamental corner stone to all anti-oppression work.

        E: Either way, I’m done engaging in this derailment and centring of privileged feelings. The people who prioritise their own comfort and feelings over the harm they cause others, and who would rather invest all of their energy in to finding loopholes to allow them to continue avoiding holding themselves accountable for their actions, instead of just, I donno, listening to marginalised people who are telling them that they are causing harm, are, well, never going to listen. And I simply have better things to do with my time and emotional labour.