• thefartographer@lemm.ee
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    You know what? I usually have that same reaction when people pronounce “Elon” like “Ellen.” I wasn’t even thinking about the name “Melanie” at the time. I originally wrote “Melony,” but that looked incorrect, so I changed the y to an ie.

    I’d seen someone else write F Elon, so “felon” was in my brain, so I wanted to call him"Felony," but that seemed lame, which led to “Melony,” and you get this picture.

    Anyway, all those mental hoops that I jumped through to end up accidentally seeming like I was trying to use gender as an insult—something I’m totally not cool with.

    If anyone’s read this far, thanks, and I apologize for my comment seeming like I was trying to misgender Elon like it’s part of some sort of joke. Elon deserves worse than that kind of insult, and the types of people that it actually harms deserve better.

    @[email protected], even though it wasn’t my intent, thank you for calling me out on this. I’d hate to be another voice piling onto marginalized communities or promoting toxic masculinity.

    • Deceptichum@quokk.au
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      You’re a good egg fartographer! That was very well said and a great show of introspection.