• gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de
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    14 hours ago

    I agree, and personally find “chaste” or “prude” women unattractive.

    I find it very fascinating and difficult to relate to that large swaths of the population seem to see it differently. The number of times i’ve heard some man say “women should all be more modest” is mind-blowing for me.

    Women, as all humans, have value within themselves, and if they manage to express that (“self-expression”) then the outer world gets to see and share a part of that value. If people don’t act on their instincts, they might as well be dead. Non-constructivists “traditionalists” are only dead weight and don’t contribute anything to society, and i don’t comprehend how some people can see meaning outside of the expressions of the living’s soul. That is why self-expression is so important.

    • SitD@lemy.lol
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      5 hours ago

      in a framework where people are just alive to mate this is a valid theory, but women can also self-express in more ways than offering sex 😂 also, people who only act on their instincts are even more dead than the ones that never act on their instincts. whenever your mode of operation is exactly and only one, never changing, that’s not a good thing.

      anyways, i agree with the core here, which is that vast amounts of the population heavily communicate what criteria others have to fulfill to be desirable. I’d much rather prefer everyone does what they want and chill out

    • Isoprenoid@programming.dev
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      13 hours ago

      If people don’t act on their instincts, they might as well be dead.

      Psychopaths: “Oh boy, here I go killing again.”

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        10 hours ago

        I feel like theres a bit of a leap in logic there, from being open about sex to killing people

        also I tho8ght that was a family guy quote and was SEVERELY disappointed when I looked it up