currently juggling reading 4 different books at the same time; i would recommend you get a note-taking app if you are in a similar situation

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    1 day ago

    if i did two big social things in a week like that i would be pretty burnt out and possibly snippy with people. i’d need a bit of solo time to recharge before i could wear my social mask again

    the statement by your friend here looks unkind without context

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      21 hours ago

      Thanks ❤️

      I think it was unkind, but I also get why he lost his temper. Looking back I wasn’t being rational, was doing relationship OCD stuff and being really frantic about it, too. He could’ve said the exact right thing and it wouldn’t have helped. Been working on it, but I backslid hard.

      Gonna try not to take his words to heart but they did feel pretty bad for a little while.