• Fungah@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I have this thing where I tend to get a raging hard-on when a woman is crying near me, like if a my girlfriend is sad and I’m consoling her:: boijg.

    I have no intellectual inte=st a woman crying, and generally don’t feel “turned on”, like, I’ll generally just try and }pretend like it’s not happening and have no urge to do anything about it. I’ve always kind of wondered “what the fuck” every time it happens since there’s nothing I find remotely interesting sexually about it. Now though, I wonder.

    • SoleInvictus@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      Holy shit, me too! Same as you, I don’t actually feel aroused, it’s just there, like the random erections teenagers get. It used to make me really uncomfortable when I was younger, I just grew to accept it over the years. I’ve never heard anyone else mention it before, now I’m wondering if it’s more common than I thought.

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      11 months ago

      you’re attracted to the open display of emotion. Probably because you’re repressing your own.

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      11 months ago

      there’s nothing I find remotely interesting sexually about it

      I don’t know, man. Getting a boner each time is… an indication.