Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

  • mumblerfish@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    That only covers one angle, if people do it for religious reasons, not if they don’t do it because of religion. I’m not getting married, and the religious connotations of even a secular wedding is a significant chunk of why.

    • Jimmyeatsausage@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      There’s also a million legal reasons to get married… If there weren’t, same sex marriage would probably have never made it to the Supreme Court. Everything from insurance coverage, employment benefits, credit rating, child custody, transfer of property following death, medical decisions, and a bunch of other very secular, very important benefits are conferred via legal marriage.