That’s not the point, the idea is years from now there will be things that stood out from this time and you’ll’ve remembered them fondly, without the hurt and the struggle that stand out to you now.
The wish is that now we can focus on the good things, the things that are happening now and enjoy them as fondly as we will remember them.
As stressed as I am and as scared as I am I will remember the time I spent loving and caring for my partner and my queer friends. It doesn’t take privilege to find and love in a community, it is what we do. If you have trauma I understand how you feel, and I urge you to seek help when/if you can, professional or otherwise. Just don’t be alone, and try to have hope.