Kaity She/Her
~ Pan / Poly / Pet / Plaything ~
That’s not the point, the idea is years from now there will be things that stood out from this time and you’ll’ve remembered them fondly, without the hurt and the struggle that stand out to you now.
The wish is that now we can focus on the good things, the things that are happening now and enjoy them as fondly as we will remember them.
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what do they call it, “Get stuck in impossibly tiny hole upside down and die”?
Spelunkers are crazy, out of every stupid thing you could do that has a high chance of killing you of you if you make a tiny mistake you choose spelunking?
I’m polyam, anything outside the boundaries you set with him is cheating. So if he broke those boundaries, he cheated, simple as.
Oh no! Well as long as it is stored safe <3
Get a fund me going for a tiny fridge and fridge thermo you can use just for your med storage maybe? I’d definitely pay into that what I can. We all deserve well kept estrogen, not our fault our damn ovaries went the wrong direction.
y’all keep your estradiol in the fridge?
Edit: I was sure I was right but I looked it up to be sure, don’t store it in the fridge ladies. Keep it in a drawer (away from sunlight), 20 and 25 degrees C (68 and 77 degrees F).
Sorry for hijacking the shitpost for the safety announcement. carry on dorks
I love this joke because you know the programmers were having one of those “friends laughing really hard at a stupid joke and saying ‘we should have a tv show’” moments.
It’s funny cause even if someone is transphobic, on some level they do see you as valid which they’d never intentionally admit. But they will unintentionally admit it with their misandry/misogyny.
heartbreaking… beautiful statue of danny devito is AI generated
Even worse the password was accepted in full when registered, but the login field won’t accept the full length.
Transgender is the correct term btw, the one you used is dated and derogatory
Yeah, I can totally see that being why the trope is super prevalent.
Me too, I had a non-gendered nickname based on my dead name, and was going to just have my middle chosen name be a lovely name that fit that nickname. But then I decided I hated the nickname and got sour on the idea of “making it easy” for my parents to dead name me in their heart, while using a chosen name.
Ended up not having a middle name, which is cool because I get to “legally attest” to not having a middle name sometimes which I thought was interesting.
That’s fair, I never intended to invalidate anyone’s decision to have any sort of chosen name.
But see, that’s a really great chosen name so I totally get that.
Never would judge any real person for their chosen name, I just find it silly when it’s like this in memes and stories.
As stressed as I am and as scared as I am I will remember the time I spent loving and caring for my partner and my queer friends. It doesn’t take privilege to find and love in a community, it is what we do. If you have trauma I understand how you feel, and I urge you to seek help when/if you can, professional or otherwise. Just don’t be alone, and try to have hope.