TerribleHands [he/him]

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  • I see what you mean, but personally I’ve found it easier to find real community in big cities, bound by shared interest rather than just geography.

    When I lived in a small town, I knew all my neighbours but those relationships rarely went beyond a quick “hello” on the street. In my city now there’s obviously a hundred anonymous strangers for every person I know, but I have a genuine culture and community in places and activities I frequent.



  • covid killed anyones drive to socialize with strangers

    Ah interesting, that’s not been the case in my experience.

    Do definitely agree about the cost though. It sucks that having a social life is often stuck behind a paywall.

    Still, in general, big cities are going to have more opportunities than small towns, even if both are comparatively less social than in the past.