AcidSmiley [she/her]

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Cake day: March 15th, 2021

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  • It’s important to not overexert yourself with voice training. If your throat starts to hurt, stop for the day. It’s generally safe, unless people want to rush a very time-intensive process and keep pushing themselves too hard. If you do that, it can damage the vocal chords. This isn’t going to happen if you respect warning signs from your body, tho. I’ve done voice training with a speech therapist because my insurance covers most of that, but a lot of people get good results with online tutorials from channels like transvoicelessons







  • It is a minority, but as usual such minorities are enough to make spaces unsafe for women when they have official backing or at least tacit acceptance of their behavior. That’s what turns it from just a minority that can be dealt with into a structural flaw of the community. The recent controversy about transmysogyny and liberal civility politics on lemmygrad unfortunately isn’t the first example of women complaining about their mistreatment on that instance. Just look at the reasoning of the guy you’re arguing with - his problem isn’t exploitation in sex work or coercive material conditions that pressure women who otherwise wouldn’t do so into sex work, it’s that he views it as dishonorable to perform sex work. He makes a moral argument against the woman where he puts the blame squarely on the sex worker because he’s a sexist pig who poisons a leftist space with reactionary ideology.













  • Found a really great queerfeminist bar last weekend. Absolutely wonderful place, we rolled in there with about a dozen dolled up trans people and we just immediately fit in there. I know i’m at home when the gender neutral bathroom stalls have writing like “10/10 toilet a trans girl got head here” on them. Spent most of the evening getting headpats from a very cute transfem catgirl that i had chatted up for the last couple days until i eventually took her home cat-trans

    So, it looks like i’ve got … a pet now. And a really cute one at that. We’ve been chatting every day about kinky stuff since then and we’re making all these plans what we can try out and it’s really bringing out my dommy side.