Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place! hexbear-pride

Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.

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    • Jenniferr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      Doing Ok!! After about idk, 10 months of silently wanting to somehow get to know the other trans woman in my office (I am closeted at work) it’s finally maybe happening? So that’s cool

      • GaveUp [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        1 year ago

        That’s so awesome! I had a friend crush (now we’re great friends!) on the trans woman in my office as well while closeted so I know how happy you must be

        How did you start talking to her?

        • Jenniferr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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          1 year ago

          We are traveling at the same time, we are usually on different shifts but now our shifts are closer together. But like since she doesn’t know I’m trans I’m like really trying not to come off as weird or anything haha. Eventually I will tell her probably if we end up hanging out but idk I really don’t wanna be overbearing or weird with this person 😅😅 I may have some anxiety over this lol. Also there is pretty much nobody that knew me as a guy who knows I’m trans. All the people who know I’m trans met me that way. This is definitely kind of a weird nerve wracking thing for me lol I’m sure other trans people delt with this though

    • AcidSmiley [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      I’m preparing for the trip to the first talk with my surgeon. After that, i got all i need to get the cost coverage for my bottom surgery affirmed. It’s still a wait list of more than a year once i’ve got the clearance, but the day when i’m post hog is contantly drawing closer and i love it.

      For the other stuff going on queerly in my life, see my spray-bottle post further upthread lea-blush