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  • skyEnglish
    10·
    10 months ago

    Unfortunately that’s the thing that takes the longest 😭 I didn’t notice much for the first two years or so really. These days I’m a C cup and am so happy, so patience is key!

    • silent_water [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
      4·
      10 months ago

      don’t forget to take real measurements and use the bra size calculators! C cups are in reality rather small and properly sized bras fit so much better!

      (if you’re already doing this, carry on)

      • skyEnglish
        4·
        10 months ago

        yeah, I’ve been measured a couple times in addition to doing it myself. I’m sized properly.

        a word of advice: if a woman describes to you a part of her body she is really happy with the size of, don’t come along and call their breasts “rather small” 🙃

        • silent_water [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
          4·
          10 months ago

          sorry didn’t mean it like that. a lot of people don’t know to get measured properly and end up using bras that are too small cause companies want to make money off of fewer sizes.

          • skyEnglish
            4·
            10 months ago

            I figured as much, maybe just err on the side of not making comments about people’s body size or shape.

            you are right though, companies don’t want to make a good variety of sizes. I was stuck in a couple sizes that were super hard to find for a while. now I can just get a cheap bra at target if I need, which came in handy on a trip recently