Welcome to the Melbourne Community Daily Discussion Thread.

This post is brought to you by Bot #001. Learning the days is really hard. I’m so worn out I can barely tell my 1s from by 10s. So today will be a day of rest.

  • MisssDarylC@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    I just wanted to reiterate how nice it is to not be feeling hurt/pain about my break up anymore, I’m sure there will be moments but I’m just feeling so overall positive and happy. I’m feeling ready to put myself out there and start dating again and just go with the flow.

    I’m super proud of how much healing and learning I’ve done in the last year, I’ve changed so much and definitely for the better. I’ve made more friends, I work hard to prioritise my social life and to keep those relationships going so that an actual relationship is just a supplement to my life.

    I’m excited to get my adhd assessment done and my diagnosis soon and to keep learning. I’ll head back to therapy once I have my tax return and just keep trying to make some positive steps to be my best.

  • omoikiri@aussie.zone
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    I spent a good chunk of yesterday making a vanilla slice to take to dinner at mr. Omoikiri’s friend’s house tonight. Cut it all up, arranged it back in the tray. As we were running out the door, I asked him to grab the slice that was on the kitchen bench while I grabbed his drinks and my bag. Got to the front door and he’s got the slice alright. He’s also got his switch and his volleyball and his keys chucked in top of it, squashing the custard out of half of them and ruining the icing on the others.

    He’s lucky he’s so hot because it took every bit of my self control to not dump his ass right on the spot.

  • bull⚡@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    Several people brought small children (and one baby) to see the almost 3 hour, very loud Mission Impossible. They were predictably loud almost immediately during every semi quiet scene and no efforts were made to quiet them.

    People… what a bunch of bastards. I need to remember to go see movies at obscure hours on weekdays.

  • just_kitten@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    Yayyyyy stress flu incoming. Chills and sore throat. yaaaayyyyy

    e: okay I have a feeling I’ll have to call in sick on monday whether I like it or not

  • Pilk@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    My first full-price appointment with my newest therapist is coming up this week. You’d think after 15 sessions I’d be more confident that these sessions were value for money. 🤔

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      1 year ago

      I’ve been in the same position but no matter how good the therapist it still hurts to be rawdogged with the full whack that first time. It is so. much. money.

      I think I’ve spent nearly 4k on out of pocket costs for mental health this year, it is insane.

  • heyheyitskay@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    I made a list of to do and to learn and now I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and not really sure how to prioritise and tackle it. Why do I do this to myself

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      1 year ago

      Do the small easy stuff first. Then separate the stuff between the things that need to be done and the things that can wait.

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        I do this. My daily to-do list has some easy wins so I can tick stuff off and feel I’ve achieved something. You’re right, some things can wait; for me they are either ‘now’ or ‘not now’, a trait of Time Blindness that people with ADHD experience. And of course the best planned to-do list can be derailed as soon as a ‘now’ task jumps into your thoughts.

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          If I do the small stuff and the urgent then even if I get one other thing that needs to be done done then it’s a bonus.

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          Thanks for that. I just hope I can stick with the plans I make because I generally struggle with structured and scheduled time blocks unless it’s for work where I get paid for it lol.

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        Thanks. That’s a good point. I’ve been trying to tackle the hardest (probably most useful but not most urgent) stuff first and it’s frustrating me to no end so I probably need to start small to get started to not lose my mind and motivation in the process.

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      1 year ago

      expand the list out, one page per item. Then goal as the heading. Break it down into skills and time lines.

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        Thanks. I started a hierachy with the to learn list but probably need to write down some solid goals, objectives, and timelines. I want to make a habit of doing little bits during the week so I’m not cramming everything in on the weekends - that should help me decide how long things will realistically take too.

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    1 year ago

    Lettering on cross-stitch project for friend’s birthday completed. Will continue the border bit after making dins.

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    1 year ago
    shhhhh

    HAve another beer!
    Sunday Night Cheer!
    And chase away those blues.
    Forget the bad news:
    It’ll offset those blues
    To the night of Tues-
    day, coloured in hues,
    Of grey skies and coos
    of Ravens in my alley,
    down in that concrete valley.
    where the youth dilly-dally
    And ask for smokes daily
    So I play music from Disney
    Out on my balcony
    Scares them away
    Too cool to sing along
    They’re the dorks all a long.
    I’ll keep singing those songs,
    From Hercules and Mulan.
    Alas, I digress,
    The point of this mess
    Of rhymes and crimes
    Against tense,
    Is: ima have another beer,
    And continue this Sunday Cheer!
    Here here!

  • Goddess_Amaterasu@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    Has anyone heard from upyourmerricreek (I think that was their name) are they here with a different name? Haven’t heard hair nor hide from them since

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    Everything, Everywhere, All At Once is a movie unlike any I’ve ever seen before. It was very creative and thought-provoking. Would recommend.

  • bull⚡@aussie.zone
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    1 year ago

    I just stopped by the Subaru dealership on my way home and had an in-person look at the size/height of the Outbacks. I think it might be just about what I’m looking for, moving from an XR6 to something a bit bigger and taller without going full SUV. I’ve been looking at the XT Touring and maybe the XT Touring 50th anniversary special edition. Could be a winner, maybe once I’m back from my holiday I’ll look more seriously.

    Then I just gotta make it purple 😈 💜