in which some nerd tries to call in a 4chan harassment raid

  • magicker catto@lemm.ee
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    Let’s make it boneheaded so you can’t miss it:

    Saying “narcissist” is a slur is like saying “cracker” is a slur.

      • magicker catto@lemm.ee
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        This is also much like when pedophiles try to include themselves in the “neurodiverse community”

          • magicker catto@lemm.ee
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            The comparison between narcissism and anger management problems and pedophilia is much closer than autism, schizophrenia, or even just basic anxiety.

            These people have problems with inhibitions that would ordinarily stop them from abusing other people. Not every mental disorder demands accomodation in the same way.

            Sorry you thought you found one of life’s cheat codes. You’ll always be searching for those

            • RoomAndBored [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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              I feel like you’re attempting a sleight of hand here to, in getting us to defend the user with NPD, to paint us as defending paedophiles.

              I do not nearly know enough to discuss NPD, but I also think you’re being dishonest by grouping those two disorders together.

              I’m want to call you out on this now, because I want other commenters here, who know more of the context of your disagreement and have better knowledge about these topics, to be aware.

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                This is similar to how people call sexuality a “drive” when it’s just an incentive reward system in the brain, not a survival thing.

                • Nakoichi [they/them]@hexbear.net
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                  You’re so fucking pathetic trying this debate bro shit here. You have no fucking clue how many smug dipshits like you we brush off regularly. Just pack it up bud, go outside. I think you need some fresh air.

                  Have you checked your apartment for black mold? I know that can really fuck your brain up.

                • RoomAndBored [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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                  I don’t browse that comm, nor do I have YouTube (except for music) or TikTok, and I disavowed any expertise on the subject.

                  However, I think that the construction of your -argument- before is trying to draw users into defending a group category that you have drawn, which includes paedophilia, then if anyone were to defend that group that you drew, or another item within it, you would then call them out as defending paedophilia. I am not discussing definitions or diagnoses.

                  It appears to be similar to a dishonest debating tactic and I want to call you out on it in advance.

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                    This is not a dishonest debating tactic and you are defending the idea that people with inhibition problems that threaten others need accomodations in the form of never being called out

                    Imagine we stopped using “mad” because some people have anger issues.

                    Imagine we stopped using “nonce” because, some people are pediphiles.

                    Imagine we stopped using “narcissist” because some people are narcissists.

                    Doesn’t make any sense. They’re pejorative for a reason. These are abusive tendencies towards others.

            • silent_water [she/her]@hexbear.netOP
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              if the user in question hadn’t posted about getting help, I might agree with you. but I’ve had my mind changed. running to 4chan to bully people is coward shit.

              • magicker catto@lemm.ee
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                That doesn’t have any relevance to the conversation about the use of the word constituting a slur.

                The latter two points are just conjecture. I told you I happened to find hexbear screenshots on “chans”. I happen to agree with the takes. You’re just assuming that the takes were on 4chan.