Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place! hexbear-pride

Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.

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  • TerminalEncounter [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    That’s so interesting! - now saying that it sounds like it really, really sucks to go through lol. I did social transition before HRT so I never got some of that. Stuff got different for me quickly in terms of headspace and emotions and, like, general vibe for sure after HRT. Hopefully stuff starts leveling out for you and you’re able to figure out your new normal - relating to people as a woman is definitely different compared to as an egg, even if you’re early in transition and things haven’t changed really physical. Cis women usually get help and an induction from like a community or their parents over a decade or so, we get the accelerated track lol. Do you have any irl LGBT (or just T) support groups? They might help you work through this.

    • GaveUp [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      Not really. Half the people in the queer groups act weird once they find out I’m trans and I have literally nothing in common with the trans groups (they’re all much older than me and we come from completely different walks of life and still do live completely different lives)

      Thankfully one of my closest friends is also trans and so just feeling secure that she views me as a woman and being a great resource/advice for transitioning has helped a ton