Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place! hexbear-pride

Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.

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    1 year ago

    Hell yeah! For me that was about when things started getting real heh.

    • BirdBrained [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      God I hope so. I mean I’ve loved it so far but it has been a bit slow in some aspects, like I’ve still got like next to no breast growth

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        1 year ago

        Unfortunately that’s the thing that takes the longest 😭 I didn’t notice much for the first two years or so really. These days I’m a C cup and am so happy, so patience is key!

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          1 year ago

          don’t forget to take real measurements and use the bra size calculators! C cups are in reality rather small and properly sized bras fit so much better!

          (if you’re already doing this, carry on)

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            1 year ago

            yeah, I’ve been measured a couple times in addition to doing it myself. I’m sized properly.

            a word of advice: if a woman describes to you a part of her body she is really happy with the size of, don’t come along and call their breasts “rather small” 🙃

            • silent_water [she/her]@hexbear.net
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              1 year ago

              sorry didn’t mean it like that. a lot of people don’t know to get measured properly and end up using bras that are too small cause companies want to make money off of fewer sizes.

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                1 year ago

                I figured as much, maybe just err on the side of not making comments about people’s body size or shape.

                you are right though, companies don’t want to make a good variety of sizes. I was stuck in a couple sizes that were super hard to find for a while. now I can just get a cheap bra at target if I need, which came in handy on a trip recently